tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1773356771647520694.post615292839791780323..comments2024-03-26T17:01:51.855-04:00Comments on Eccentrics United: An Autism Blog: SmilingUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1773356771647520694.post-89909292539840072402011-05-04T03:16:56.113-04:002011-05-04T03:16:56.113-04:00This sounds too familiar. I really feel uncomforta...This sounds too familiar. I really feel uncomfortable when people randomly ask if I am OK. My instinctive reaction would be to ignore them, turn away and shut them out. Instead I usually try to reassure them that I am fine, since I hate the drama when I am 'rude' even more.Cecilehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13740346973500351275noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1773356771647520694.post-53349650944781087992011-04-01T13:36:22.410-04:002011-04-01T13:36:22.410-04:00Yeah, I know about the testosterone link to all th...Yeah, I know about the testosterone link to all this (it's in a book called "The Essential Difference: Male and Female Brains and the Truth About Autism") but I wonder if there is a study showing that people notice it more if girls and women don't smile, if people interpret it differently if they don't, and if people prompt them more to do so.Eccentrics Unitedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01387926241080720465noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1773356771647520694.post-2173558628452303892011-04-01T12:58:47.110-04:002011-04-01T12:58:47.110-04:00I found this in Research Journal of International ...I found this in Research Journal of International Studies; 2010, Issue 14, p4-7, 4p, using my access to EBSCOhost:<br /><br />"US social psychologists have found that there is a gender difference for use of a smiling facial expression. A replication was found in France where numeric photographs of student-yearbooks were examined to observe whether the student smiled or not. Results shown that women were more likely to smile and to do so more fully. These results where congruent with previous research conduct in United States and the universal gender differences in smiling is discussed. [ABSTRACT FROM AUTHOR]".<br /><br />So is the smiling a social expectation or an actual sex difference? Maybe men are expected to be more "serious", and therefore a serious expression is anticipated, whereas in women it is fairly unusual.thought-capsulehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10898749116630800706noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1773356771647520694.post-34125899726593287762011-03-31T23:34:57.652-04:002011-03-31T23:34:57.652-04:00Seriously, what do people expect you to do when th...Seriously, what do people expect you to do when they say things like, "You look really depressed!" ??? "Oh, yeah, I don't know you from atom, but I am depressed. Want to hear my life story?" Really? Even if we were depressed, don't they realize that this is intrusive and tactless? And people say that Aspies lack social grace!<br /><br />I really would like to know if there is a study about whether women are reminded to smile more than men when they are deep in thought, or whether women deep in thought are more likely to be interpreted as being depressed than men when not smiling.Eccentrics Unitedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01387926241080720465noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1773356771647520694.post-29962341534056032462011-03-31T23:26:46.376-04:002011-03-31T23:26:46.376-04:00This is all too familiar for me. When I volunteere...This is all too familiar for me. When I volunteered at my local science museum and there weren't many visitors, I would just sit there and think up new experiments to show the visitors, or a better design for our balloon rocket. I thought it was perfectly normal-looking, but many people gave me comments like "wow, are you ok, honey?", or "you look really depressed", or "Are you bored?". None of these were true! I guess there's a disconnect between my brain and my face...<br />I'm a female by the way.thought-capsulehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10898749116630800706noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1773356771647520694.post-11193783056852305852011-03-26T12:06:43.459-04:002011-03-26T12:06:43.459-04:00that's funny, I used to get the same crap grow...that's funny, I used to get the same crap growing up.... how "normal" am I? hmmmmmmmmm....<br /><br />-IanAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com